Family you have to live with
Family you have to
live with for the rest of your life!
Where do your priorities lie in managing these two types of
controllers?
With professional vendors, your top priority may be getting what
you want, at the price you’ve negotiated, and it really doesn’t
matter if you have to step on a few toes to get it. You’ll be
polite and professional when dealing with vendors, but you must
not be a push-over.
With family, your priority may lie with maintaining loving
relationships for a lifetime. You should be no more of a
pushover with family than with other vendors, but you SHOULD make
sure to hear their side of any issues that arise and to
continually emphasize (both with your words and
with your actions) your gratitude for this loving effort they’re
putting forth for your very special day.
A third possible type of controller is a combination of the other
two:
? friends or family providing services for your wedding.
This can be a little trickier, because you?re both dealing with
them as a vendor and planning to have a relationship with them
for the rest of your life.
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